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Who’s In Charge? - Parenting Programme

This 9-week programme is designed for parents and carers.

The Who's in Charge? programme may be suitable for you if:

  • — you feel you are struggling to maintain control,
  • — and/or if you feel you have lost parental control,
  • — and/or if your child or young person is violent towards you physically and/or verbally,
  • — and if you would like to regain parental control

FOCUS: The programme specifically addresses situations where children are exhibiting abusive or violent behaviours towards parents or caregivers.

TARGET AUDIENCE: Parents or caregivers experiencing child-to-parent violence whether physical, emotional or financial....

PROGRAMME STUCTURE: 8-9 Week programme with 2 trained facilitators, providing a supportive environment for parents to learn & implement strategies.

What will you gain from this course?

Through a mix of discussions, practical exercises, and emotional support, you will:

  • — Feel less isolated - connect with other parents who truly understand
  • — Overcome guilt - recognise that parenting is challenging, and you are not alone
  • — Build confidence - develop assertiveness and self-care strategies
  • — Understand behaviour - explore the many factors influencing your child’s actions
  • — Set clear boundaries - learn how to define what is acceptable and unacceptable
  • — Manage anger - reflect on both your child’s anger and your own responses
  • — Find practical strategies - discover ways to introduce meaningful consequences, even when your child refuses to cooperate
  • — Believe in change - gain hope and tools to create positive shifts in your family life

Weekly Sessions:

  • WEEK 1: Welcome to the programme
  • WEEK 2: “Causes” or influences of violence or abusive behaviour
  • WEEK 3: What is abuse? How do we influence/control/have power over our children?
  • WEEK 4: What do you do for your child? What can I control in my child's life? Consequences
  • WEEK 5: Consequences continued & Parenting styles
  • WEEK 6: What buttons do your children press with you? Anger
  • WEEK 7: Assertiveness! How to use “I STATEMENTS”
  • WEEK 8: What do we do for ourselves? Goal setting

WEEK 9: Progress, difficulties & success (around 1-2 months later)

CURENTLY AVAILABLE FACE-TO-FACE IN SUDBURY & HAVERHILL SUFFOLK OR ONLINE.

 

For further information or to make a referral please contact us.